It’s been a year since i wrote here. So what’s the story during 1 year of my absence here?
Pandemic happened since early March and we’ve been living in great fear until today. First 3 weeks of isolation seems fine until it becomes 3 months.. and now already 5 months since it was all began. Okay not gonna talk about the pandemic.
I will be talking about me. Leaving my previous job probably the bravest decision i have ever made. I’ve been mentally struggle to cope with everything happened there. The rollercoaster, the loneliness, and everything that never seems fair. I am happy with my job today, and i am glad I made the decision. It was not an easy decision fo sho. I kept back and forth like 3 times until i realized i need to step out from my so called ‘comfort-zone’. Well, to be honest it was not giving me comfort anymore.
But that’s okay. This is life, you’ll just need to embrace whatever life has offerred. Most importantly, I survived till now, and I have better chance now for which I am glad.
That’s pretty much about my corporate hustle life. And, now? How am I feeling now? Truthfully, I am very lonely. I have never felt this before. Not only being isolated from outside world, but at some point I just realized I have one from my new workplace to talk personally. I am not sad, I’m just lonely.
Before pandemic era, I used to fill in those empty space with just small talk with my work friends. Socializing around just to let loose my burden a little bit. But i know now why people saying, “when life gives you lemon, then you just need to make lemonade”. My take on this one : now probably is the right time for me to avoid all of the attachment with my workplace before it all even began. I just need to focus on what to do and how to survive. This doesn’t made me sounds like having a rebound, right? I hope not.
Another thing that pandemics era strikes the most are relationship with your significant others. I have no wonder why many divorce cases happening in all of the part of the worlds. While probably some of the couple gain so much more intimacy, there are many couples just having so much hardship during this time.
Bad economy, frustation, cummulative issues arised, distrust, violence, parenting, and many other things that you just can’t imagine. I have my own issues also which I am basically a very selfish human being. When something arises to the surface and I need to be a bigger person, it’s what make me struggle the most. To accept things. To let go and move on. At the end of the day, I just need to ask for mercy and strength to Allah SWT The Almighty. I holds no power to refuse, I just thankful that I have ‘enough’ to beat it.
I know there are so many heartbreaking story happening nowadays. I know 2020 is hard. Everyone strives. Everyone faces their own challenges. I just want to remind myself also, “the light shines brightly when it’s dark enough”.
Just like my favourit part from Mikrocosmos: “You got me
I dream while looking at you
I got you
Inside those pitch black nights
The lights we saw in each other
Were saying the same thing
Starlight that shines brighter in the darkest night”.